I had to write a special blog today because I had truly written off dating black men. I really believed that there were GOOD AVAILABLE ones left on this planet. All I ever came across were low life scum.
We this past weekend I was proved entirely and completely wrong. Its not that they don't exist, they are a dying breed. It is so hard to find them, you have to look within the fabric of our society (nooks and crannies).
I have had the honor to meet the "PERFECT GENTLEMAN" in every sense. He doesn't know this but I think that he is my HERO in every since. He symbolizes the hard working, driven to success, intelligent, sensitive, yet humble black man that I have never met. Once my dad, but even he was missing a lot of these attributes. Don't get me wrong I know that no man is perfect, but if there was a such thing as a perfect man "HE" would be the picture in the dictionary depiciting THE PERFECT Man.
Here's to you darlin. You know who you are. Stay true to you and I hope and pray that I can find the Perfect Mate that symbolizes everything you are.
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Monday, November 2, 2009
Living a Life of Celibacy- Challenging
Living a life of celibacy I must say has been the hardest decision that I have ever had to make. I wish that I had made this decision a long time ago. I have seen men practically serve it up on a platter at a chance to prove I can't be celibate.
What I did find was that the men in my life that I thought respected after being in a relationship with them for 4 years or more, was that they never respected me from day 1. Why is it that when a relationship breaks up, you hear all the things about you that they were thinking and never had the courage to say.
What I must say to that is thank you. Thank you for opening my eyes to the underlying problem....ME. It was ME who allowed myself to get involved with such low lives. It was ME who did not muster up enough self confidence to see my worth and my value. I can't blame them. I have to start with myself.
Now that I now my self worth, it's on. No more of that girl who was display low self estem and confidence in her worth. I don't know why more African American fathers don't tell their daughters that they are beautiful or strength the bond. I know that was lacking in my life. Even though my father taught me values of hard work and business sense, he forgot I was his little girl. He forgot that me was the 1st man in my life that should have told me he loved me. He should have explanined to me how men take advantage of women and how I was a strong queen who should never settle for less.
But that's okay, the lesson has been learned.
What I did find was that the men in my life that I thought respected after being in a relationship with them for 4 years or more, was that they never respected me from day 1. Why is it that when a relationship breaks up, you hear all the things about you that they were thinking and never had the courage to say.
What I must say to that is thank you. Thank you for opening my eyes to the underlying problem....ME. It was ME who allowed myself to get involved with such low lives. It was ME who did not muster up enough self confidence to see my worth and my value. I can't blame them. I have to start with myself.
Now that I now my self worth, it's on. No more of that girl who was display low self estem and confidence in her worth. I don't know why more African American fathers don't tell their daughters that they are beautiful or strength the bond. I know that was lacking in my life. Even though my father taught me values of hard work and business sense, he forgot I was his little girl. He forgot that me was the 1st man in my life that should have told me he loved me. He should have explanined to me how men take advantage of women and how I was a strong queen who should never settle for less.
But that's okay, the lesson has been learned.
Monday, August 31, 2009
Confidence vs Ego - My Testimony for Mosquito Bites
Something I read:
Having confidence vs. having an ego - Having confidence in your abilities is an important part of life. But how do you know when you're crossing the line into building an ego? Someone who is always bragging about himself not only sours the relationships with those around him, but also develops his actions into a pattern that is hard to reverse. Do you alienate people around you with your ego? Have you crossed the line of confidence to egotistical? Instead of bragging about your accomplishments, discuss how you got there or the people that helped you along the way. This way you can share your success in an endearing way without making it all about you. Take the focus off of yourself for a moment and think about how your success can be a tool to help others achieve the same.
Well that is one of my thoughts for today, I know its been awhile since I blogged. I promise I am trying to get back on track.. peace...DP
Well I have confidence in my testimony for today!
I was walking in the garden this weekend. I used the standard bug repellant to keep the "skeeters" from bitting me, cause I swell up so bad. Well apparently, I didn't cover every inch of skin because low and behold, I GOT BITTEN. Well my first response it to moan and gripe that I am going to swell up, then the INTENSE ITCHING ATTACK STARTS. Well I remember the Remede salve that I sell with Soul Purpose and thought let me run in grab the Remede put some on cause its great for itchy skin. WELL, not only did I not itch within seconds, the ENTIRE MOSQUITO BUMP THAT WHELPED UP TO HIGH HEAVEN DISAPPEARED!
Okay so I am ranting and raving about how this miracle salve did my bite. So now a family member was having problems with irritation around the top of her socks on her skin, YES, WE USED REMEDE. She was amazed at how the redness went away.
Next, my niece got tore up by skeeters, we remede her down! Now I am being chased around and track down to get more REMEDE SALVE!!! Well I will always make sure I have remede in my 911 kit, medicine cabinet and anywhere else it will come in handy.
Go to my website at www.debbipatrick.soulpurpose.net to get your over the counter Remede salve for my online store today. It's only $17 and so worth it!
Having confidence vs. having an ego - Having confidence in your abilities is an important part of life. But how do you know when you're crossing the line into building an ego? Someone who is always bragging about himself not only sours the relationships with those around him, but also develops his actions into a pattern that is hard to reverse. Do you alienate people around you with your ego? Have you crossed the line of confidence to egotistical? Instead of bragging about your accomplishments, discuss how you got there or the people that helped you along the way. This way you can share your success in an endearing way without making it all about you. Take the focus off of yourself for a moment and think about how your success can be a tool to help others achieve the same.
Well that is one of my thoughts for today, I know its been awhile since I blogged. I promise I am trying to get back on track.. peace...DP
Well I have confidence in my testimony for today!
I was walking in the garden this weekend. I used the standard bug repellant to keep the "skeeters" from bitting me, cause I swell up so bad. Well apparently, I didn't cover every inch of skin because low and behold, I GOT BITTEN. Well my first response it to moan and gripe that I am going to swell up, then the INTENSE ITCHING ATTACK STARTS. Well I remember the Remede salve that I sell with Soul Purpose and thought let me run in grab the Remede put some on cause its great for itchy skin. WELL, not only did I not itch within seconds, the ENTIRE MOSQUITO BUMP THAT WHELPED UP TO HIGH HEAVEN DISAPPEARED!
Okay so I am ranting and raving about how this miracle salve did my bite. So now a family member was having problems with irritation around the top of her socks on her skin, YES, WE USED REMEDE. She was amazed at how the redness went away.
Next, my niece got tore up by skeeters, we remede her down! Now I am being chased around and track down to get more REMEDE SALVE!!! Well I will always make sure I have remede in my 911 kit, medicine cabinet and anywhere else it will come in handy.
Go to my website at www.debbipatrick.soulpurpose.net to get your over the counter Remede salve for my online store today. It's only $17 and so worth it!
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Dead Doctor's Don't Lie
I just read some exerpts from Dead Doctors don't lie!
I attached a document with the facts listed below on living to see 145!!!!.
Fact Sheet about Dr. Joel Wallach of Youngevity
Dr. Wallach was nominated in 1991 for the Nobel Prize
Grew up in a farm in West St. Louis County back in the 50’s
Attended University of Missouri, at the School of Agriculture and received degree in Agriculture, Majored in Animal Husbandry and Nutrition, Minor: Field Crops and Soils
Attended Veterinary School
Went to Africa for two years worked with Marlin Perkins form Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom (worked with Rhino’s and Elephants)
Worked at the St. Louis Zoo for the National Institute of Health
Performed over autopsies of animals who died at St. Louis Zoo, Brookfield Zoo in Chicago, Bronx Zoo in New York, the National Zoo and the LA Zoo
Over a period of 12 years performed 17,500 autopsies on over 454 species of animals, 3,000 human beings that lived closed to the zoos.
Discovered from the autopsies that died from natural causes died of a nutritional deficiency.
Wrote 75 scientific articles, 8 multi-author textbooks
Featured on 20/20 television show, 1700 newspapers, magazines and was in every network TV
Discovered that is possible to live to age 140 or more!!!!!!
Dr. Li from Tibet – lived to age 256!!!! Written up in New York Times in 1933
Armenian, Abcasians and Azerbaijanis live in the Soviet Union to age 140!!!
Niger, Africa a chief lived to age 126 name Bower still had his teeth
Syria man lived to 133 died July 1993 in the Guinness Book of
Records for fathering 9 children after the age of 80, he was still fathering children after the age of 100!!!!
You need 90 nutrients in you diet every day. You need 60 minerals, 16 vitamins, 12 essential amino acids or protein building block and you need 3 essential fatty acids. You need 90 nutrients in your daily diet otherwise you are going to get deficiency disease.
With the proper nutrients daily you could prevent these diseases listed:
Ulcers, Cancer, Arthritis, Alzheimer’s Disease, Kidney Stones, Aortic Aneurysms, Varicose Veins, Stroke, Cardio Myopathy, Cravings (PICA disease), Liver, Age Spots, Baldness, Deafness, Osteoporosis, Hormones, Smell/Taste Loss, Gingivitis, Receding gums, Hypertension, High blood pressure, Insomnia, bone spurs, heel spurs, muscle cramps/twitches, PMS, Low back pain, Diabetes
www.debsoulpurpose.youngevityonline.com
I attached a document with the facts listed below on living to see 145!!!!.
Fact Sheet about Dr. Joel Wallach of Youngevity
Dr. Wallach was nominated in 1991 for the Nobel Prize
Grew up in a farm in West St. Louis County back in the 50’s
Attended University of Missouri, at the School of Agriculture and received degree in Agriculture, Majored in Animal Husbandry and Nutrition, Minor: Field Crops and Soils
Attended Veterinary School
Went to Africa for two years worked with Marlin Perkins form Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom (worked with Rhino’s and Elephants)
Worked at the St. Louis Zoo for the National Institute of Health
Performed over autopsies of animals who died at St. Louis Zoo, Brookfield Zoo in Chicago, Bronx Zoo in New York, the National Zoo and the LA Zoo
Over a period of 12 years performed 17,500 autopsies on over 454 species of animals, 3,000 human beings that lived closed to the zoos.
Discovered from the autopsies that died from natural causes died of a nutritional deficiency.
Wrote 75 scientific articles, 8 multi-author textbooks
Featured on 20/20 television show, 1700 newspapers, magazines and was in every network TV
Discovered that is possible to live to age 140 or more!!!!!!
Dr. Li from Tibet – lived to age 256!!!! Written up in New York Times in 1933
Armenian, Abcasians and Azerbaijanis live in the Soviet Union to age 140!!!
Niger, Africa a chief lived to age 126 name Bower still had his teeth
Syria man lived to 133 died July 1993 in the Guinness Book of
Records for fathering 9 children after the age of 80, he was still fathering children after the age of 100!!!!
You need 90 nutrients in you diet every day. You need 60 minerals, 16 vitamins, 12 essential amino acids or protein building block and you need 3 essential fatty acids. You need 90 nutrients in your daily diet otherwise you are going to get deficiency disease.
With the proper nutrients daily you could prevent these diseases listed:
Ulcers, Cancer, Arthritis, Alzheimer’s Disease, Kidney Stones, Aortic Aneurysms, Varicose Veins, Stroke, Cardio Myopathy, Cravings (PICA disease), Liver, Age Spots, Baldness, Deafness, Osteoporosis, Hormones, Smell/Taste Loss, Gingivitis, Receding gums, Hypertension, High blood pressure, Insomnia, bone spurs, heel spurs, muscle cramps/twitches, PMS, Low back pain, Diabetes
www.debsoulpurpose.youngevityonline.com
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